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0024_stacy_copyAt the time Stacy was involved in a three-and-a-half year relationship with a boyfriend  who was verbally, emotionally and physically abusive. “I knew it wasn’t right after just eight months,” says Stacy, “but I was afraid to distance myself from him.” And, she admits, “I was ashamed of what was happening. I felt that I was a strong person. I was a good student, a three-sport athlete and had a loving family. But he stole my self-esteem. He would tell me that it was my fault when he lost control. If I hadn’t acted a certain way, he wouldn’t have reacted badly. He wouldn’t have laid his hands on me. And I believed him.” But then it got even worse. “He said if I ever left him, he would mess me up so bad nobody
else would want me. He even threatened to kill me.”

0036_stacy_copyIn talking about the murder of her childhood friend, Stacy grows emotional. “I knew she was in an abusive relationship just like me. I would plan for us both to break up with our boyfriends together. When she was killed it was a major reality check.” Stacy adds “The closer I got to the Lord the more I realized I had the power to make a change in my life.” Her growing confidence along with the fear that what had happened to her friend could just as easily happen to her galvanized Stacy to take the step she knew she had to take. “By that time my boyfriend had graduatedand lived in another state. I broke up with him over the phone.” Even though she wanted to tell him exactly how she felt about what she had endured, Stacy says, “I kept the conversation very matter-of-fact, and asked him not to call me back. He called every ten minutes for the next two weeks.” She never answered the phone.


Fortunately Stacy escaped the dangerous relationship she had been in and was able to move on with her life. Today she is a successful sideline reporter for the Indiana Pacers and says,
“People who know me now can’t believe something like that could have happened to me.” Because of her experience Stacy is determined to help other women trapped in similar situations. Two years ago she was invited to tour Sheltering Wings.

0006F_stacy_copy“When I first toured the shelter,” says Stacy, “I felt so safe. I felt that had I known about this place when I was a college freshman, I would have had somewhere to go and learn and
grow and know that I didn’t deserve to be in the kind of relationship I was in. That it was wrong.” Since that day Stacy has become one of the shelter’s strongest supporters. She says, “Sheltering Wings is one of those amazing places with amazing individuals with such big hearts and the willingness and the desire to help women get out of situations they didn’t feel they could get out of. This is a place where they can go not only to feel safe and protected but also to learn that they can be the women they want to be. And live the lives they
are supposed to live.” Stacy acknowledges it’s hard to talk about her personal
experience with domestic abuse, but feels that ultimately “If I can keep women safe and help them get out of a bad relationship then it’s worth it. If telling my story is the way
I can help save lives then I will tell it to the world.”

If you know of someone or are that someone who needs help please call 317-745-1496 or send a confidential email to This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it .

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Patron Sponsor ($1,000)

• Company name included in evening’s program

• Company name listed on signage at event

• 1 complimentary table for 8

• Private reception invitation with auction preview for 8 people

• Engraved paver with company name to be placed in new courtyard of shelter expansion

Program Sponsor ($2,000)

• Company name included on back cover of the evening’s program

• Company name listed on signage at event

• Verbal recognition at event in front of 700+ participants

• 1 complimentary table for 8

• Private reception invitation with auction preview for 8 people

• 4” engraved crystal presented at the dinner for you to proudly display at your company

• Engraved paver with company name to be placed in new courtyard of shelter expansion

• Invitation to give a presentation about your company at a Brownsburg Sertoma Club meeting

Centerpiece Sponsor ($3,000)

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• Company name listed on signage at event

• Verbal recognition at event in front of 700+ participants

• 1 complimentary table for 8

• Private reception invitation with auction preview for 8 people

• 4” engraved crystal presented at the dinner for you to proudly display at your company

• Engraved paver with company name to be placed in new courtyard of shelter expansion

• Company name and logo displayed with each centerpiece

• Invitation to give a presentation about your company at a Brownsburg Sertoma Club meeting

Presenting Sponsor ($5,000)

• Company name and logo printed on half page of evening’s program

• Company name on signage near stage

• Verbal recognition at event in front of 700+ participants

• Company name on website 2nd quarter of 2011

• 1 complimentary table for 8

• Private reception invitation with auction preview for 8 people

• 8” engraved crystal presented at the dinner for you to proudly display at your company

• Engraved paver with company name to be placed in new courtyard of shelter expansion

• Special invitation for 8 people to receive a private tour of our shelter to meet women and children

• Invitation to speak to Sheltering Wings’ Board of Directors

• Invitation to give a presentation about your company at a Brownsburg Sertoma Club meeting

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• Company name and logo on full page of evening’s program

• Company name and logo showcased at main stage

• Invitation to address audience night of dinner dance

• Verbal recognition at event in front of 700+ participants

• Logo/link on website 2nd and 3rd quarters of 2011

• 2 complimentary tables for 8

• Private reception invitation with auction preview for 16 people

• 10” engraved crystal presented at the dinner for you to proudly display at your company

• Engraved paver with company name to be placed in new courtyard of shelter expansion

• Company name included in all media coverage, including press releases related to event

• Special invitation for 16 people to receive a private tour of our shelter, where you will meet women and children who are recipients of our services and staff who provide services

• Invitation to speak at Sheltering Wings’ (invite only) annual meeting and to the Board of Directors

• Invitation to give a presentation about your company at a Brownsburg Sertoma Club meeting

• Company name and logo included in Sheltering Wings’ Spring 2011 newsletter reaching 12,000 readers

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• Verbal recognition at event in front of 700+ participants

• 1 complimentary table for 8

• Private reception invitation with auction preview for 8 people

• 6” engraved crystal presented at the dinner for you to proudly display at your company

• Engraved paver with company name to be placed in new courtyard of shelter expansion

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• Special invitation for 8 people to receive a private tour of our shelter

• Invitation to give a presentation about your company at a Brownsburg Sertoma Club meeting

 

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• Company name and logo printed on half page of evening’s program

• Company name on signage near stage

• Verbal recognition at event in front of 700+ participants

• Company name on website 2nd quarter of 2011

• 1 complimentary table for 8

• Private reception invitation with auction preview for 8 people

• 8” engraved crystal presented at the dinner for you to proudly display at your company

• Engraved paver with company name to be placed in new courtyard of shelter expansion

• Special invitation for 8 people to receive a private tour of our shelter to meet women and children

• Invitation to speak to Sheltering Wings’ Board of Directors

• Invitation to give a presentation about your company at a Brownsburg Sertoma Club meeting

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